For people who have grown up elsewhere, Europe can be exciting in many ways. But some aspects of life can also seem strange, absurd or even hostile. The mentality and habits naturally differ from one European country to another, but there are still quite a few common cultural features.

Some migrants with an African or Arabic cultural background can be irritated by the fast pace of life. Punctuality is very important, and not only in Germany. Europeans often see time as precious and will even meetings with relatives and friends are scheduled several days in advance.

In Europe, a lot of things might raise an African or Arabic eyebrow: the way of talking - or not talking - to strangers, of adding spices to food and of dressing to name a few. There are a lot of differences in personal relationships, not only between men and women but also between adults and children.

Sooner or later any foreigner in any country of the world experiences culture shock: Many notice it and move on while others feel frustrated, helpless, scared, depressed or lonely. There are, however, strategies to overcome culture shock: Talking to friends, keeping a journal of experiences and trying to make new acquaintances can all be helpful.

Culture shock, however, should never provide justification for discrimination, racism or criminal activity. Social organizations and, in urgent cases, the police can provide help. Discrimination and racism are difficult to prove, for example, when looking for a place to live or a job. Still, giving in is the worst option. Better to talk with somebody who can help you, perhaps a friend or counseling center.

Author: Klaus Dahmann

Editor: Sean Sinico