Eating disorders are often seen as a female illness, but men are affected too. We met a young German man who developed anorexia at the age of 12, losing more and more weight while exercising excessively. For years, he denied the illness despite therapy and growing concern from his family. A turning point came during psychotherapy, when he was confronted with the seriousness of his condition. Today, the 23-year-old can eat with others again, meet friends and exercise without compulsion. The illness has not disappeared, but he manages it more consciously and draws strength from relationships, work and self-acceptance. Experts say eating disorders in men often go unrecognized, which can delay diagnosis and treatment. Early support is key to recovery.