Miscarriage is far more common than most people realize. An estimated 15-30% of all pregnancies end in it – many before a woman even knows she's pregnant. Despite how frequent it is, the topic remains taboo, leaving many individuals feeling isolated in their grief. Miscarriage can happen for many reasons, from genetic abnormalities to hormonal imbalances, and it’s almost never the result of anything the pregnant person did or didn’t do. Yet guilt and shame often accompany the experience, fueled by cultural silence and outdated myths. 

The emotional impact of losing a pregnancy can be profound – even when the loss occurs early. For many, hopes and dreams start forming the moment they see a positive pregnancy test result. Some cultures have created rituals to acknowledge and mourn the loss; others offer little space for emotional recovery. But healing requires recognition – both of the loss and the person experiencing it. Even though medical care can reduce certain risk factors, not all causes are preventable, and most women go on to have healthy pregnancies afterward. 

This video explores the causes, myths, and emotional toll of miscarriage while offering information about what it means and how to support someone going through it. Because while miscarriage may be common, silence shouldn’t be. 

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